Thursday, Mar. 25, 2004
Double shocker
It’s been so crazy lately at work that getting anything done other than what the job requires in virtually impossible. I have been working overtime all week and now is the first time I have had at least a minute to write anything of substance in here; I am starting to miss it.
This past week has been pretty uneventful, I had to things happen to me that were surprising and as odd as it sounds very similar to one another. I will start by saying that after J and I broke up and before I met my husband, I dated a guy I met from NY while he was visiting here in PR, we met the first day he got here and were inseparable for those three weeks he was here, when he left I was sure we could probably work something out, but he always had his doubts and decided we should not even try it, I admit I was a smitten kitten and it hurt me a lot. What hurt me the most is that he would constantly call me and talk to me about other girls and stuff like that, every day my mom would say “one of these days he is going to wish he did things differently”. Since then we have become friends and we talk once in a while. Well on Friday, I was chatting with him online and we were joking about a million things and he said, you should get divorced and marry me, I was thinking that he was joking and said, you would have to cancel your wedding first and his answer was what shocked me, he said “For you I would cancel my wedding in a minute, I have never loved anybody the way I still love you” and what shocked me the most was that he meant it. My answer: “Had you told me that a minute before I met my husband, I would have thought about it, but not a minute after meeting him”.
On Monday, my father called me and told me someone I knew got a hold of his cell phone and had told him that we had gone to school together and he really wanted to get in touch with me and left me his number. It was a guy that I had been friends with, only friends and we had lost touch with over 2 years ago, when I called to see how he was doing and after talking for a bit, he asked if I was living in my parents house and I told him I had gotten married 5 months ago, he was so surprised, he told me that he felt let down because he always felt we could have had so much more, and always thought a lot about me.
This was another surprise because I don’t usually get that kind of calls and I guess I never thought I could cause this kind of feelings in someone.
Days like these I am so happy that my relationship with Rafa is stable and committed and honest. I told him about the call and the fact that this guy still wanted to be friends and his answer was “I trust you, I believe in you; I know there would never be anything more than friendship.
r-y-r at 3:07 PM
